Episode 77 | Mental Health in Military & Law Enforcement: Endurance, Identity, and Relationship Strain with Caleb Chestnutt, LAMFT
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Episode Summary: What happens when survival mode becomes an identity?
In this episode, Shaina sits down with Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist Caleb Chestnutt to explore the mental health impact of chronic stress, trauma exposure, hypervigilance, and emotional suppression within military and law enforcement culture.
Drawing from both his clinical work and his lived experience serving in military law enforcement roles in the U.S. Air Force, Caleb offers a grounded and deeply nuanced conversation about the culture of endurance that exists within many first responder spaces — and the ways it can quietly shape relationships, emotional regulation, identity, and help-seeking over time.
This is a thoughtful and deeply human conversation about trauma, endurance, identity, and the emotional cost of operating in systems that reward strength while often stigmatizing vulnerability.
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Topics Discussed:
- Barriers to seeking therapy in military and law enforcement communities
- Hypervigilance, emotional numbing, and chronic survival mode
- Dark humor as adaptation and coping
- Moral injury and institutional culture
- Relationship strain in high-stress professions
- The psychology of strength, control, and emotional suppression
- Clinical considerations when working with first responders
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About Our Guest:
Caleb Chestnutt is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist who works with couples navigating the weight of high-stress lives. His work focuses on how long-term pressure from careers in military service, emergency response, healthcare, and other demanding professions quietly reshapes communication, emotional presence, and connection at home.
Before becoming a therapist, Caleb served in the U.S. Air Force in military law enforcement roles, including overseas deployments and leadership within high-pressure operational environments. His own experience with stress, transition, and seeking help informs the way he shows up in the room: grounded, direct, and deeply human.
Caleb helps couples slow down, understand what’s happening beneath the surface of conflict, and reconnect without shame or blame. He practices at Collaborative Counseling Institute in Gilbert, Arizona, and speaks on topics related to relationships, transition, identity, and chronic stress.
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Conflict of Interest Disclosures:
The host, Shaina Siber-Sanderowitz, LCSW, is the Founder of Affirm Mental Health, an accredited CE provider. She receives financial compensation from Affirm Mental Health for the development and delivery of continuing education content. No other financial conflicts of interest were reported.
Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for clinical training or treatment. If you or someone you know needs mental health support, please reach out to a licensed professional.
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